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Barbiegirl19 | Any one else have this and what's your opinion on it? It definitely explains a lot lol |
PixieJane | Mine's sextile but I'm also happy with the way I am. (ETA: The above post was edited after I posted this. My reply made sense to how it was before it was edited.) |
Barbiegirl19 | They aren't the same sign are they? They can't be if they sextile so never mind lol. Do you have a hard time dealing with conflict and find yourself avoiding it? |
PixieJane | Conflict is generally stressful, but it seems worse for others. But I do avoid what I consider unnecessary conflict or conflict that's not worth it. Quick example: a woman ripped me off and when she decided to give me "another chance" I refused and matter of factly told her why I wouldn't do business with her again. She had a meltdown and tried spreading horrible rumors about me. Luckily I had a good rep and she a bad one so I weathered it well but I realized too many more incidents like that and some mud would start to stick so in the future I just said I was too busy or came up with some other reason to make sure I didn't do business with them. After all, I wasn't going to have anything to do with them again anyway so why make trouble for myself telling the truth of why I won't? Especially when telling the truth will not only make them worse but keep them in my life longer. But if it's inevitable I go with the flow and even try to have fun with it. And if I consider it necessary (someone is a threat and must be confronted) and/or that harmony is better served by immediate conflict than simply staying quiet and letting the toxic stuff happen over & over again then I'll step up and do what I have to do. |
Barbiegirl19 | I feel the same about it being worse for other people. I do let a lot of things go in one ear and out the other. I'm sure sometimes it may not look that way on here lol it's just hard not to say anything. I'm a very impulsive person and it's hard not to say what's right on the tip of my tongue when people annoy me. I can't believe that lady would do that and then lie to make it look like you're the bad person. I feel really bad for people like that, it really makes me wonder what the hell their issues are. Lol. |
Barbiegirl19 | Anybody else wanna share?.. |